September 24, 2015

  • Reality Method

    As promised, here is another great resource that I recently uncovered.

    The Reality Method was another great PUA blog that had a great deal of Red Pill thinking before there was a Red Pill. The blog focused primarily on game,with many articles on relationship management, solid inner game, and general lifestyle. He also focused a lot on self-improvement as a primary mode of attraction. He did a very good job of mixing theory and practical application.

    Sadly, sometime around 2009, he decided that he had moved on in his thinking and no longer considered his body of work to be valid anymore. He took most of his articles down, and eventually took the entire site offline. Fortunately for us, the Wayback machine has a pretty good working archive of the site, and it is still available now.

    This is an index of the main articles on the site. You should start here and work your way down each article from top to bottom. This list groups them all together by subject, and gives a good outline to get through the bulk of his work. Here are a few highlights that I found:

    Women enjoy (and are aroused by) being made to feel that they are not in control. This is their natural emotional state as women, and it is positively and evolutionarily linked to the occurrence of them being taken care of, sheltered, provided for, and pair-bonded in a long-term survival situation.
    Now that I’ve given the game away, it should be pretty clear what sort of male behavior women are really after, what they really get turned on by: dominance.

    And herein lies the real secret of total control of the women in your life. What follow is a simple, 4-step formula for success in getting women to do precisely what you want them to do:
    1. Become a source of comfort in a woman’s life (by amping attraction, giving her good emotions, variety and drama, etc)
    2. Express your preferences for the changes you want her to make strongly (perhaps using the power of sex)
    3. If she does not comply, threaten to withdraw yourself as a source of comfort (i.e., leave)
    4. If she makes the requested changes, reinforce her behavior by returning to #1

    And, as an added bonus, here is a zip file of pdfs of all the posts I could find from the site.

    Overall, this is a great site that gives some of the best advice I have seen on women.